What Language Are You Speaking?

Changing the culture of Christians is difficult. they seem to get stuck in their ways and forget that the rest of the world has moved on.  It’s the reason that the King James version of the Bible is still popular with die-hards, even though no one uses words like “thou,” “hither” and “verily” anymore in everyday language.

At Journey, I have included in our communications style guide a list of words and phrases that we try very hard not to use.  For many of us, we grew up hearing the church referred to as the sanctuary, the teaching referred to as a sermon and those who were not members referred to as visitors. The problem is, a lot of times we end up alienating people because we use words that have radically different meanings or no meaning to those outside the church.

Here is my list and some of the rationale for the change. Anything I’m missing?

From the Journey Style Guide

Old Phrase New Phrase Why it Matters
Sanctuary Auditorium Those unfamiliar with church may not know what to expect in a sanctuary, but an auditorium is less uncertain.
Recruit Invite Recruit is something that is done to me, Invite is done for me.
Need Opportunity A need sounds like something you want me to do. An opportunity is something I get to do.
Sermon Message Sermon sounds too preachy (pun intended)
Visitor Guest Visitor implys that you don't belong here and you're not going to stay. Everyone is a guest.
Intimacy Connection In the real world, intimacy usually carries a sexual connotation.
Go Deeper Next Step People say they want to go deeper but they have no idea what it looks like. I know what a next step looks like.
Attend Experience Attend is something you want me to do. Experience is what I want to do.
Fellowship Community What does fellowship mean to those outside the church?

Here is a list I’ve complied from a few different websites. I don’t necessarily think they all need to be on the list, but it’s a good starting point for a discussion amongst church leaders. What is important is that everyone is on the same page – if we’re not consistent, people get confused and they use whatever term they feel like. If we consistently use terminology across the board, our people will pick it up much faster and be more likely to use it too.

Other Phrases to Consider

Old Phrase New Phrise
Scripture/Bible Verse Place in the Bible where is says...
Believe Trust/Accept
Born Again/Converted Changed/Transformed
Christian follower of Christ
Confess Admit
Grace God's totally unearned forgiveness
Gospel God loves us and sent His Son so that we can find forgiveness and new life through Him
Preach Talk about
Repent To be sorry about wrongs and to try and turn from them
Salvation forgiven of wrongs and given eternal life
Savior Jesus, Gods Son, who forgave my wrongs and gave me eternal life
Share discuss, explain
Sin acting against God's plan
Testimony Story
Witness Share, tell
Worship Give honor to God for who he is and what he's done

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About the Author

Matthew Starner is the Director of Worship & Arts at Journey of Faith in Grand Rapids, Michigan. As a young church committed to reaching the unchurched and dechurched in the community, creativity and innovation are a must. He is committed to helping other churches realize their potential and become powerful forces for God's Kingdom.